Nestled along California’s rugged coastline, Carmel-by-the-Sea is an enchanting destination that feels like it’s been plucked straight from a fairytale. For Sami and George, it was the perfect place to celebrate their love story. With Big Sur’s dramatic cliffs and Carmel’s charming streets as the center of their weekend, they were able to create the intimate wedding day of their dreams.
Carmel-by-the-Sea California, is the epitome of romance and charm, making it an ideal place for a wedding weekend celebration. The picturesque town is known for its quaint cottages, vibrant art galleries, and cozy coastal vibes. Just a short drive away, the dramatic Big Sur beaches and cliffs offer breathtaking views that feel like they’re straight out of a postcard. Beyond the coastline, Carmel Valley is dotted with endless vineyards and world-class restaurants, creating a luxurious yet intimate setting for couples and their guests.
In October, the sea fog rolls in strong, wrapping the area in a soft, ethereal blanket. It’s the kind of atmosphere that makes everything feel so cozy. The sea fog breaks once it reaches the always sunny Carmel Valley, where our wedding festivities took place.
As part of their wedding weekend, I had the honor of capturing not only digital memories for Sami & George but also wedding film that created a dreamy collection of moments from their celebration. From getting ready at the Hidden Valley Inn to the heartfelt moments during their ceremony, each scene was woven together to reflect the joy and connection of their loved ones. Highlights included their intimate vows beneath a large oak tree, their vibrant flower mandala, and an energetic dance floor under the stars. The film I captured brought their magical weekend to life, preserving their memories in a way that feels as alive as the day itself.
The day before Sami and George’s wedding was filled with laughter, love, and a sense of giddy anticipation. The couple hosted a casual yet thoughtful rehearsal dinner at a local park, just a short walk from their hotel. With a banquet hall, a pool, and plenty of space for yard games, it was the perfect spot for their loved ones to gather and celebrate.
The dinner featured a laid-back BBQ-style menu with delicious food and drinks. Long tables were adorned with candles, casting a warm glow as the sun set into a warm pink sky. Guests mingled, played games, and shared stories, soaking in the relaxed atmosphere. It was a true celebration of connection and community, setting the tone for the heartfelt moments to come.
The day began with a cozy group breakfast at Jeffrey’s, where Sami, George, and their closest loved ones shared laughs and breakfast burritos. The entire wedding party stayed at Hidden Valley Inn, a serene retreat where every guest had their own little bungalow. It was the perfect way to feel connected together.
Before diving into the whirlwind of wedding festivities, Sami and George treated themselves and their guests to a spa day at Refuge Carmel. Known for its tranquil setting and rejuvenating thermal pools, it set a tone of relaxation and connection before the fun festivities later that day. There’s nothing like a calm start to a day filled with love and celebration.
As the morning unfolded, Sami and her bridesmaids gathered in a sunlit hotel room to prepare for the day ahead. Laughter echoed as they shared stories, sipped champagne, and helped Sami step into her stunning gown. A particularly touching moment came when each of her bridesmaids handed her handwritten notes filled with love and heartfelt wishes. Tears flowed as Sami read their words, overwhelmed by the depth of their connections and the significance of the day.
Meanwhile, in another room, George and his groomsmen embraced a lighter, more playful energy. Jokes flew, laughter roared, and their close friendships were undeniable. They suited up with an air of excitement, ready to support George as he prepared to marry the love of his life. These sentimental and lighthearted moments perfectly set the tone for the day.
After getting ready, Sami and George shared an intimate first look and exchanged private vows beneath a sprawling oak tree, bathed in the warm glow of the California sunshine. It was a moment just for them, surrounded by the peaceful beauty of the Santa Lucia mountains. The heartfelt words they shared were a testament to their deep connection and love for one another.
Sami and George’s wedding party was a lively, warm & colorful group of people that brought so much fun and excitement to their weekend. From sharing inside jokes to hyping up the dance floor later that evening, they brought so much joy and energy to every single moment. Each bridesmaid and groomsman played a unique role in making the celebration unforgettable, with sentimentality and the best sense of humor that kept everyone smiling.
Living Circle Farm, a regenerative farm & vineyard, perched high on a windy mountain, was the perfect setting of Sami and George’s wedding day. With panoramic views of where the land meets the sky, the venue offered a breathtaking canvas for their celebration. The golden California sunlight and rolling sea fog over the Santa Lucia mountains created an ethereal atmosphere that felt like pure magic.
The emotions ran high as Sami walked down the aisle to “The Night We Met” by Lord Huron. Tears streamed down her face and her family’s, capturing the weight and beauty of the moment. The clear, sunny sky and the serene mountain backdrop made the moment feel timeless. As they exchanged vows, the sea fog rolled in, adding an almost cinematic quality to the ceremony. It was a deeply rooted celebration of love that left everyone feeling inspired and grateful.
Every corner of this wedding reflected Sami and George’s unique love story. Friends and family had lovingly set up the day before, crafting floral arrangements from flowers grown on the property. The centerpiece of their ceremony was a vibrant flower mandala, created by their dear friend Jenny, a Boise yoga teacher. Adorned with crystals, marigolds, olive branches, and property-grown blooms, the mandala symbolized a connection to love and nature. It invited guests to spread well wishes and love, honoring the couple’s spirit of togetherness.
After a joyful champagne toast with their wedding party, Sami and George slipped away for couple’s portraits at sunset. The Santa Lucia mountains glowed in the golden light, providing a dreamy setting for capturing their first moments as newlyweds. These keepsake images perfectly encapsulated the beauty and emotion of the day.
As the ceremony concluded, guests were treated to a cocktail hour set against the stunning backdrop of the setting sun over the mountains. The sky shifted through deep purples, blues, and pinks, casting a magical glow over the celebration. A warm outdoor fire blazed, inviting guests to gather, mingle, and share stories while sipping on drinks and enjoying the serene atmosphere. It was a perfect blend of elegance and coziness, making everyone feel at home.
The reception tablescape was a vision of warmth and vibrancy. Two long tables adorned with colorful flowers, marigold napkins, and handmade name cards were set against the stunning mountain views. Guests mingled and laughed as the sun dipped below the horizon, creating a golden glow over the celebration.
As dinner began, friends and family stepped forward to share heartfelt speeches and toasts. Each story and blessing offered a glimpse into Sami and George’s lives and the love they share. Speeches were free flowing, encouraging many to speak, resulting in a series of touching, humorous, and deeply personal stories. There was so much laughter to go around.
The first dances were a highlight of the evening, with Sami and George shared a tender moment, followed by heartfelt parent dances to “Vienna” by Billy Joel. George danced with his mom, and Sami danced with her dad, creating moments that were both nostalgic and emotional.
These dances opened up the dance floor, that exploded with energy! DJ Blake spun a mix of nostalgic ’90s jams and modern hits that had everyone on their feet. From the youngest to the oldest guest, the dance floor was packed, radiating joy and excitement. The party continued into the night with a lively hotel after-party, ensuring the celebration ended on the highest note.
The party was an absolute blast, with DJ Blake spinning nostalgic ’90s jams that had everyone on their feet. From the first dance to the final song, the energy was electric, and the love in the room was palpable. The celebration carried on into a lively hotel after-party, where guests continued to laugh, dance, and toast to Sami and George’s future.
Sami and George’s wedding day was a perfect reflection of who they are—thoughtful, adventurous, and deeply connected to their loved ones. From the flower mandala to the heartfelt vows and the joyous dance floor, every detail celebrated their unique love story. As a destination wedding photographer, it’s days like this that remind me why I do what I do: capturing moments that are as timeless and alive as the love they celebrate.
If you’re dreaming of your own destination wedding or elopement in Carmel-by-the-Sea, Big Sur, or beyond, let’s connect and create something magical together.
Vendors:
Photographer: Natalie Estess Photography
Venue: Living Circle Farm & Hidden Valley Inn
Spa: Refuge Carmel
Mandala: Jenny with Preserving a Sense of Wonder
Rentals: Nuage Designs